Mistress Matisse of Seattle

Meet the Mistress Matisse

Welcome...I am glad you are here.

Whether you are a novice or an experienced submissive, there are things that you should know about me, the Mistress Matisse.

I have been doing dominance and submission and SM for ten years in my own life and four years professionally. I am a "lifestyle" Mistress, although personally I don't care for that term. What I do say is that this dynamic, this way of relating to another person, the magic that can be created - it is very close to my heart, it is at the center of who I am. To me, this encompasses the mind, body and soul.

There are many ways of being a dominant. I respect other Dominatrixes in all their different styles. But I think there are misconceptions in the world about how one must behave to be a Domme. I am not an angry person. I do not hate men, and want to punish them out of that hatred. I do not think of the men who come to me as inferior to me by definition.

I am a very powerful woman...

I have the ability to take people on journeys into places they have not been, and make them feel things they have never felt. But all those things - the places, the feelings - already exist within the person. I have the ability to see the potential, to direct the journey, to shape its path - but I do not create something in people that was never there before. Each one of you has something special inside you - I can unlock that and bring it out.

I value the men and women who give me their submission. It is a gift of trust - and I do not abuse it. The things I do in my sessions may be physically or psychologically intense. But I respect each individual's stated limits, and no matter what, I do not cause permanent damage to anyone. I am sadistic, and I can be extreme - but I am also a caring and ethical person. Besides... the Mistress must take care of her toys - so she can play with them over and over and over again...

Want to know more about the Mistress?

Read her Personal Blog - Random thoughts, musings and trivia...

Read her article on how to negotiate with a Pro Domme in the Stranger, a Seattle weekly newspaper. You can also peruse the rest of her writings there in the Control Tower weekly column (scroll down to find the current one, or go to the archives for prior articles).

Read her article for www.cleansheets.com on "What is Kinky Sex?"

Read an interview with her on bloggasm.com about BDSM culture in general.

Read another interview with her here...

Listen to a podcast on polyamory at Blowfish.com, and another on being a pro domme, polyamorist, and sex worker.

Listen to another podcast on polyamory at Blubrry.com.

Read an article about her that appeared in the Seattle weekly newspaper, The Stranger.

Read client reviews of Mistress Matisse:

Review from 8/22/99 (Maxfisch.com)

Review from 6/18/99 (Maxfisch.com)

Review from 8/14/00 (FetBot.com)

There are other reviews as well, do a keyword -"Matisse" - search for them...