Mistress Matisse of Seattle

How to please Mistress Matisse

Tips and Advice for Prospective Submissives :
Read this before you contact me!

There are two basic things that are important to the Mistress Matisse. They are communication and courtesy.

The Mistress Matisse is an experienced, perceptive and very intelligent dominatrix, but she is not a mind reader. You must be prepared to communicate and answer questions about your desires when you contact her. Even if you are a complete novice, you should spend some time thinking about what fantasies drove you to contact the Mistress. Here are some examples of questions you should be able to answer:

What experiences or fantasies have you had that made you feel that you want a session with Mistress Matisse?

Specifically, do you like the idea of bondage? What about being spanked, paddled or flogged? Do you think about other types of intense physical stimulus (otherwise known as pain) ?

Do you have an interest in playing other roles during the session? For example, do you fantasize yourself as the submissive slave of a beautiful Mistress? What is she like? Is she sensual but commanding, or cruel and cold? Do you think about being a naughty schoolboy with a strict HeadMistress? Or a hospital patient with a dominant lady Doctor?

If you are an experienced submissive, be prepared to answer questions about what you did and did not like about your previous experiences.

The second point is courtesy and good manners. When you first contact the Mistress, you will be seeking information and answering questions as one equal to another. It is unnecessary, and in fact, presumptuous, to address her as "Mistress" and speak to her as if you were already her slave. Once an agreement has been reached and you have consented to submit to her power over you, then it is appropriate for you to address her as Mistress.

Whether you are a novice or not, it is natural to be a bit nervous with a new person about such intimate things, but flippancy and attitude are not acceptable.

In addition, once the session is underway, you should strive to be as submissive and respectful as you can. Some slaves think that consciously bad behavior, such as being rude or disobedient will get them more attention or a more severe punishment. Novices may think that rebellious behavior is cute and amusing. Neither of these behaviors are acceptable. Respectful requests will be considered by the Mistress, but bad behaviors will put an end to your session. Be prepared to submit, or look elsewhere.

Be aware: Sessions with the Mistress can be erotic. I am a beautiful woman, and it is not unnatural that you would desire me. But sessions with the Mistress will not include actual sex. I understand having sexual fantasies about dominance and submission, and we can verbally explore those during a session. I can create fantasy role plays connected with sexual feelings that you might have. But I am not going to have sex with you. When you contact me, do not ask me to have sexual contact with you. I will not respond to people who ask me to have sex with them.

For appointments, email me here: MistressMatisse@aol.com