Mistress Matisse of Seattle

Contact with me usually begins with someone asking for the most basic of information:

Where are you located?
How much are your sessions?
How do I get to see you?

Before you contact me, read this page, and you will find that it answers many of the questions you may have about me...

I have a beautiful, well-equipped, well-furnished dungeon four miles south of downtown Seattle where I do my sessions. It is discreet, private and completely confidential.

My fee for an hour-long session is three hundred dollars.

I make appointments between one pm and eight pm weekdays. I am very rarely available on weekends, but it is sometimes a possibility.

I see many people who are new to dominance and submission, as well as more experienced bottoms, and I am able to do scenes that cover the entire range of intensity. I do satisfying fantasy and fetish sessions that do not include heavy pain, and leave no marks whatsoever on the body afterwards. Equally, I can unleash my sadistic side and play with an experienced masochist.

Unlike some other Dommes, I am a true SM Mistress - this is not just a job for me. I have been doing BD/SM in my private life for ten years. I like what I do and I care about my sessions. The men and women who come to me for training and discipline are not simply a source of revenue to me - I am interested in their needs and their fantasies.

I strongly suggest advance scheduling - several days is best, but even the day before is helpful. It is usually impossible to get time with the Mistress on the same day that you contact her.

If you have read over this information and you wish to contact me, you may do so here: MistressMatisse@aol.com

These are some other frequently asked questions - perhaps yours are here:

Q I have never seen a Domme before, and I don't know much about this... is that ok?

A I see many people who are new to dominance and submission. I suggest that you utilize the resource before you - the Web. Start with the links here - click and learn so that you can know what you would like to try. It will enhance your experience. But yes, I can introduce you to many new things at a pace that's suitable for you.

Q What exactly would you do to me if I had a session with you?

A. Each session is different and individual. I do not do one-size-fits-all dominance. After our initial contact I will think about the information that you have given me. When you arrive for your session, I will get a very visceral response to you, and right away I will begin to plan what kinds of things I might do with you. You and I will negotiate the session so that stated boundaries are respected. I play with safewords, so that if something becomes too intense for you, there is a way for you to communicate with me about it. However, it is impossible to tell someone exactly what I would do with them after five minutes of phone conversation or one email!

Q Are you like an escort?

A. No, I am most definitely not an escort. I have no quarrel with women who choose to do that type of thing, but it is not what I am providing. If that's the type of experience you're seeking, you must look elsewhere...

Q Do you do extended sessions?

A My policy is this: For your first visit, I will book one hour only. We don't know what kind of chemistry we are going to have together, and I am unwilling to commit more than an hour of my time to someone who may not be at all to my taste! After that, I am willing to book two- and occasionally three-hour sessions. Three hours is the maximum.

Q Do you do any kind of barter in exchange for sessions?

A. Once in a very great while... and only if you really have something I want. I have household slaves, so don't offer to cook dinner, do housework or yardwork, give massages, paint my toenails, or wash my panties. As far as I am concerned, getting to do those things for me IS a session!

Q Do you see couples/women?

A. I very much enjoy seeing couples, whether the woman is dominant or submissive.

I am not seeing single female clients at this time.

Q. Do you do extreme scenes? Do you do consensually non-consensual scenes?

A. I will do physically extreme scenes. I have to feel that you understand what you are asking for and I will not do anything that I think is going to damage you in a serious way. By damage, I don't mean scars on your skin - I am talking about injuring a bone or an organ. I will do consensually nonconsensual scenes - which means that you say something along the lines of "I want you to spank me until I cry and no matter what I say, don't stop." Again, I have to feel that you understand what you are asking for, and I will not do anything that I think might damage your body.

Q. Do you do outcall?

A. It's extremely rare for me to do an outcall. You would have to present a very compelling reason for me to come to you. Generally the only reason I will do this is if you are in a wheelchair or in some other way physically challenged.

Q.What kinds of sessions don't you do?

I do not do adult infantilism - it is simply not a fetish of mine.
I will not do scat/brown showers, for the same reason.
I do not do permanent body modification - permanent piercing, scarification, branding - until I know you well: meaning at least four sessions.
I don't do strangulation or choking scenes. This is extremely dangerous. I will do very mild forms of breath control play.
I do not do public play.
I will do long bondage scenes under some circumstances, but I will not do a session where I tie someone up and leave them alone for long periods. This is not a very safe thing to do.
I don't do strictly voyeurism scenes - meaning that you cannot just come in and watch me dominate someone else.

And I never, ever switch - so don't even ask!

More information about what I do not do...

Q. I am a male dominant, but I'd like to try a session with you where I get tied up/get flogged/whatever. I'm not very submissive in my behavior, though.

A. I will sometimes consider seeing a male dominant who wants to experience certain physical aspects of BDSM. Bear in mind, however, these important things:

I am the Mistress, it's my dungeon, I am in charge, and that's not negotiable. Be prepared to be very polite and very well-behaved.
This will not be a contest, a challenge, or a competition to see who is "more dominant." If your fragile ego cannot handle that, stay at home.

Q. Do you have a second Mistress available? Do you have a female submissive who can be in a session with us?

A. No, I see my clients alone, and at this time I am not in contact with any other Mistresses with whom I feel I would be compatible in a session.

Q. I am a dominant male - do you have a female submissive I could do a session with alone?

A. No, I don't know any professional submissives who are willing to see male dominants.

Q Can you teach me how to do BDSM?

A. Definitely! I give workshops on a variety of BDSM/dominance techniques all over the country and I can teach you either with or without a partner. There is a fee for my time - I negotiate it on a case-by-case basis.

Q. I am a woman - can you teach me how to be a Professional Dominatrix? Or, I want to be a professional Dom/sub - can I work for you? Or, Can I rent your dungeon to do professional dominance?

A. I get about three emails/phone calls a week asking me these types of questions.

Here is the short answer: No.

The longer answer: I do support other dominant women and other professional Mistresses. I know there are plenty of male submissives to go around - there are certainly far more than I myself will ever be able to have sessions with.

That being said, however, I cannot teach another woman how to go about setting up business as a Professional Dominatrix. If I did, and she did something illegal or injured someone, it's possible that I might be legally liable in some way for that. Not a risk I am willing to take. For the same reason, I cannot rent out my dungeon for professional dominance.

I cannot employ, even as a subcontractor, another person. Again, I could be held legally responsible for their behavior, and I will not place myself in such a situation.

I have discussed these issues with my attorney on many occasions, and she has advised me that these things are simply a bad idea. I wish we lived in a world where I did not have to concern myself with such things, but we don't.

Good Luck to you...

If you have questions that are not answered here, look over these pages:

What kinds of BDSM do you do?

What are your rules of behavior?

A few words about asking for "slave training."

My philosophy and ethics, plus articles, reviews and interviews.

The Erotic Photo Gallery of Mistress Matisse.